Leave Your Life Off the Ball Field

How Ball Players Can Stop Poor Thinking

When You Bring Your Ghosts to the Field

Have you ever been distracted in a game by outside sources, such as personal life factors?

Has it resulted in a bad performance?

Have you even blamed external sources for a poor performance?

St. Louis pitcher, Carlos Martinez, struggled on Thursday night in the Cardinals 11-3 loss to the Brewers.

He pitched only four innings and gave up five earned runs.

Martinez had one of the wildest, wild pitches ever in the third inning. It nearly went diagonal, crossing the third base line.

Martinez expressed that a ghost appeared in his room at the hotel in Milwaukee on Wednesday night.

Whatever the situation, Martinez was obviously shook in his performance on Thursday night. He brought the ghost with him to the ballpark.

Baseball players, like everyone, have a life outside of baseball.

They may have struggles at home, in school, in relationships, with their health, in their personal life, or anything else.

These challenges can often come with players to the field.

I started driving my junior year in high school… My dad was fairly particular about my car, and really anything he owned.

It was raining on the way to school one morning during softball season.

Logically, I had my lights on. I must have been in a hurry when I got out that morning, because I forgot to turn my lights off.

When school was over, a couple of my teammates and I were going to grab some food before our game.

I got to the parking lot and my car wouldn’t start.

I was so concerned and couldn’t really figure out why…

A friend of mine checked my car out and noticed I had left my lights on.

I felt sick to my stomach because I knew I had to tell my dad and I knew he probably wouldn’t like it.

So, I thought I’d turn my lights out and let the battery try to build back up on its own. We had a night game, there was plenty of time.

Throughout the game, I was constantly distracted with the thought of my car and whether or not it would start after the game.

I was so distracted that I over threw the first baseman from shortstop twice.

It was almost like I was trying to rush through the game, anxious to see if my car would start or I’d have to tell my dad.

Similar to Martinez, I carried my personal life onto the field and it resulted in a lack of focus and performance.

Many times, baseball players bring their outside world into baseball or softball.

Naturally, when they aren’t focused on their task at hand, they often struggle to execute.

If you bring your outside issues to the diamond or have trouble maintaining your focus, you want to cue yourself to refocus on the game…

For example, when you’re at-bat, you may use something like, “See ball, hit ball.”

Additionally, commit to leaving your issues outside of baseball in the locker room or parking lot.

You could write all your worries on paper before a game and leave it in your bag.

You can review it after the game.

This allows you to remember all that’s going on in your life, while also permitting yourself to give full attention to the game, or task at hand.


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